Four of them used one phrase or the other, and ten of twelve men in our focus group said they felt the same way: The singles scene had lost some of its appeal. Many men reluctantly admitted that for more than a year, they had felt uncomfortable in the singles world where they had been hanging out for the past five years. The singles world for professionals obviously is an older and more sophisticated crowd than that for men whose formal education ended in high school, but eventually men from both groups had the same experience. Three young men who had graduated from the same high school were in one focus group made up of men who were about to marry. One was a plumber, one worked repairing computers, and the third was a store manager. Each said he had begun to feel uncomfortable in his favorite singles place about two years earlier.
Committed, playful, enjoys life to the fullest, experiences joy each day, deeply devout. Would prefer to meet a dedicated Christian man. Abbotsford F Burnaby McGill BSc, , 5'1, lbs, 50 yr old divorced non-smoking, blonde and covetous , looking for friendship only F Vancouver Born in Europe, non-religious Jewish, 57, two grown children, psychologist. My practice is varied, which keeps me involved and interested. The rest of my life is varied too; able literature, theatre, music, food, travel, the outdoors. Of utmost importance are friends.