The 10 best works of erotic art Sally is no longer on Tinder, having met a man four months ago. Photograph by Karen Robinson for the Observer Sally is no longer on Tinder, having met a man four months ago. I was a serial monogamist, moving from one long-term relationship to the next. I had friends who'd indulged in one-night stands and was probably guilty of judging them a little, of slut-shaming. I saw the negatives — that merry-go-round of hook-ups and guys never calling again. Then, in Februarymy partner dumped me.
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